Is great sex in the cards for you tonight? For many couples, foreplay is either non-existent or way too short. It is well known that extended foreplay makes for more intense orgasms. But, you may be spending less time playing together because sex seems mundane, boring, or routine. Here is your chance to get lucky and spice up your sex life with random acts of pleasure.
With a little creativity, you can turn a standard pack of cards into your personal deck of desire. Essentially any of your favorite games can be transformed into an erotic thriller by assigning intimate activities to the cards. You can assign sexy ideas to each suit, each rank or to individual cards. You can even assign intimate activities based on color and rank combinations. Or, face cards could be assigned erotic activities while numbered cards have none. Playing cards can be assigned sensual delights in many different ways to suit the type of games you have in mind.
When creating a foreplay card game variation from one of your own favorites, introduce a range of different intimate activities. Design them in a way that encourages you to sample various types and intensities of stimulation for a total sensual experience. Since you want to awaken all your erogenous zones, try to avoid excessive repetition of each type of foreplay activity. Write the activities down so you know what you are both playing for.
For shy or slightly inhibited lovers, enjoying a regular game together can help you both get into a playful mood. Prepare an inviting play area and atmosphere that suits the foreplay games you have in mind (a glowing fire, candles, wine, soft music, tasty treats, pillows, etc.). Then slyly introduce foreplay rewards and forfeits into the game. Include periodic clothing removal that fits the nature of your game. Being forced to strip adds to the excitement but rushing to get naked should not be your goal. Build the intensity by escalating to more explicit types of sensual intimacy as the foreplay games progress. For many card games, each hand is fairly quick so you could create multiple activity lists that progressively increase the levels of intimacy.
Some example erotic game ideas based on classic card games are described below:
- Crazy Sex is an erotic adaptation of Crazy Eights with opportunities to play for what you really want: stripping, sensual foreplay and passionate sex. While trying to be the first to get rid of all the cards in your hand, receive sensual rewards corresponding to matched cards. Play to win four games scoring points as normal. Win a game to have your lover strip one article of clothing. Highest total score wins their sexual desire.
- Remember To Have Sex is an erotic adaptation of the Memory card game. Attempt to find matches by turning over only two cards at a time from a deck laid out randomly face down. Activities performed are determined by matching pairs of different colors. If a match is the same color keep the set but no activity is performed. The player with the highest number of matches wins a special sex play activity or fantasy. Incorporate stripping activities by using a joker or play multiple games with the loser of each round removing one article of clothing.
- Go Bleep Yourself is an erotic adaptation of the card game Go Fish for couples who enjoy intimate games. In this game you “Ask for Sex” activities by requesting matching cards. If your lover has what you are looking for you get it then and there. However, if you ask for something they can’t provide they get to tell you to Go Bleep Yourself. The player who makes the most successful sexual requests (matching pairs or cards) wins their favorite sex play activity or fantasy.
- Manic Mood Match is an erotic adaptation of Snap. It is a fast and easy card game where matching cards leads to stripping, sensual foreplay and passionate sex. In this game each card represents a foreplay activity you’re in the mood for. If your lover is also in the mood (a match), be the first one to Go For It and you receive the pleasuring and a set of cards. First player to win all the cards receives a special bonus sex play activity — what ever you are in the mood for.
Erotically spiced card games provide an easy, exciting and fun way to mix up your sex play. Use your deck of desire to randomize a variety of foreplay activities. And, even though you know the erotic possibilities at stake, not knowing exactly in what sequence or how often creates an element of delightful surprise. The competitive nature of the game combined with just the right amount of strategy helps build sexual tension and enhance your passion for each other. So, shuffle up foreplay and enjoy Amazing Sex!